Breaking up in just a day of being together, I honestly saw that coming but I didn't expect it to be this soon. Suffering from mental illness really affects your mood, your reactions, your feelings, your thought process and etc. And considering that both Jeong Woo and Ha Neul are not yet fully healed from depression and traumas, this breakup was really bound to happen. They still have self-issues to solve and to be in a relationship with someone who isn't also mentally stable is definitely risky. Between the two, Ha Neul is the most unstable mentally, at least eh most obvious one. But even if Jeong Woo successfully surpassed a huge problem that caused his career to crumble, it doesn't mean that he has fully healed from it either. Obviously, they really need time to recover individually and not put anymore burden to their thought process such as relationships, for the time being.
But having companion while taking these steps towards full recovery is still the best than being isolated and alone. I personally think, and probably most of you would agree, that battling depression is much more effective when we know that there's someone out there waiting for us to be healed. But, of course, that doesn't void the fact that healing starts with oneself. If we don't help ourselves, nothing will happen at all. So, I think it's best if Ha Neul and Jeong Woo would just stay friends and slowly process everything together. This is actually really difficult though especially when they already stepped inside a relationship once together. Sigh....
Anyways, family and friends of Jeong Woo and Ha Neul, we're counting on you to help them out too. Dae Yeong on the side of Jeong Woo and Hong Ran on the side of Ha Neul, they are the real friends they could count and rely on. Obviously not Kyung Min. Ugh. That user sxn of a bxtch! lol
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