Ji Chang Wook and Shin Hae Sun's Parents Are Against Their Relationship In Welcome to Samdal-Ri Episode 7

See?! My suspicions were right in my previous blog posts about Yong Pil and Sam Dal's parents having feud and might have been the reason for their break up in the past. I haven't seen episode 8 yet so I am not sure about the details of why the parents have created friction with each other but I think it has something to do with Yong Pil's mother's death. In the previous episode, it was shown that Yong Pil and Sam Dal's moms were best of friends, they are both divers in the village. So, I already knew even before that it might have been the cause of Yong Pil's mother's death. And that's how Yong Pil's father kept blaming Sam Dal's family and even after years that gone by, the anger hasn't dissipate one bit. 

To lose someone you love because of sudden death, it's really painful and very hard to accept so I understand where Yong Pil's father's anger came from. He needed someone to blame in order to, somewhat, diminish the pain but we all know that it's all wrong. But we cannot just really tell someone that's mourning to stop all this sht and just move on quickly... it's really hard but yeah... we cannot get stuck in this painful situation all our lives. We cannot bring back the dead, no matter how much we want to or how much painful it is without them, we need to move forward because there's no other way. That's the sad truth, the reality we have to live in. Yong Pil's father can mourn for how long he wants to, if that's his choice, but at least try not to involve his child and Sam Dal from it anymore. He's a grown up man, I expect him to be wiser and suck it all up by now. It's been so long after all. He needs to stop being so selfish for once for his only son, Yong Pil. Ugh.

I really love Yong Pil's character, like.. really really! BUT! Sometimes his kindness and selflessness irk me at times. If only he has the guts to fight for whatever it is on his way in loving the love of his life, then I wouldn't really get irritated like this to him... because... what can we do with all his great ideal traits for a lover or human being overall if he's a total papa or mama's boy? I do get it, he doesn't want to leave his dad all alone now because their mom is gone... but heck.. Yong Pil is sacrificing his self, his happiness and love in this kind of situation. Truth be told and it might sound a little off or heartless but.. Yong Pil is also aging... he needs a partner, obviously he wants to be with Sam Dal, and so.. he needs to act it out! FGS!! Geez... man up, yong pil please! fight for your love against your dad by having the guts to explain to him that it wasn't their fault that his mother is gone.